Memoir will always be one of my all-time favorite genres, and it’s even better when you come across a lesser-known title. Sure, we all know Wild and Eat, Pray, Love. But what about the rest of the world of travel memoirs, grief memoirs, mental health memoirs?
These memoirs you’ve never heard of have 1,000 or fewer ratings on Goodreads, which is not a perfect barometer to judge by, but that’s what we’re working with. Most were published by small presses, and they deserve all the praise in the world.
The books on this list cover a variety of life stories, dealing with grief, racism, violence, trauma, family history, and so much more. Read about a man who transitioned at age 51, a girl in Pakistan who refused to be a child bride and instead empowered other girls in her rural community to get an education, and a woman who toured the world’s death festivals in the wake of her almost-father-in-law’s sudden and devastating death.
Tour the world through these stories and the variety of voices that tell them.
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Melody Moezzi shared her experiences living a “bipolar life” — Iranian and American, and diagnosed with bipolar disorder — in Haldol and Hyacinths. Now, in The Rumi Prescription, she’s sharing her journey to recovery aided by the poems of Rumi. She translated his works, focusing on isolation, distraction, depression, fear, and the most important: love.
Quoted in "Iranian women’s resilient fight for rights inspires hope," by Kourosh Ziabari →
Melody Moezzi, an Iranian-American Muslim author and visiting associate professor of creative writing at the University of North Carolina Wilmington, says the Raisi administration’s heightened hijab curbs are among the stimulants fueling people’s anger that exploded with the death of Mahsa Amini under enigmatic circumstances.
“There is absolutely a deeper context here. The current protests in Iran were no doubt sparked by the Raisi administration’s increased enforcement of the compulsory hijab by the morality police, both in relation to Mahsa Zhina Amini and others before her, especially over the summer,” Moezzi said.
“But the sustained protests are the result of so much more than the morality police or the compulsory hijab, which, for the record, is a wildly un-Islamic policy, since the Koran specifically teaches that there should be no compulsion in religion, and regardless, the hijab is a pre-Islamic concept that isn’t central to the faith.
“The abysmal economy, largely courtesy of a brutal sanctions policy that functions as a form of economic warfare that suffocates the people of Iran more than the government, compiled with growing corruption and police brutality is at the heart of the persistence of these protests,” she added.
Read Kourosh’s full article here:
https://asiatimes.com/2022/10/iranian-womens-resilient-fight-for-rights-inspires-hope
Young Advocates Take the Lead to Curb Campus Suicide, by Holly Korbey →
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Enlisting faculty and staff to prevent suicide
Melody Moezzi is an Iranian-American writer, professor and mental health activist with three books under her belt, including Haldol and Hyacinths: A Bipolar Life, and The Rumi Prescription. But in graduate school, she had a severe encounter with mental illness that almost stilled her voice forever.
In Moezzi’s last semester of graduate school at Emory University, she was severely stressed. She’d been diagnosed with major depressive disorder – a diagnosis that turned out to be wrong – and was given antidepressants as she worked to complete degrees in law and public health. Then an administrator suggested she might not graduate according to her desired timeline, and she decided, as she put it, “to check out.” Fortunately, she survived.
“Looking back on it, I think, what a stupid reason to kill yourself,” she told MindSite News. “I have a wonderful husband, I have a wonderful life. Things were not objectively going wrong.”
Now an author, attorney and visiting professor of creative writing at University of North Carolina Wilmington, Moezzi tells her students to ask for help if they are in crisis, something she was too proud to do. She also advocates giving faculty and staff better tools to recognize a student in distress.
In an op-ed for Inside Higher Ed, Moezzi wrote that evidence-based suicide prevention training like QPR – question, persuade, refer – should be mandatory for university staff.
The technique is meant to help a professor or staff member recognize the signs of a student in crisis and ask critical questions at a moment when it may be lifesaving. She uses the technique frequently, and has offered to take students to the emergency room or the university counseling center. She ended up driving one student to the emergency room after they answered “yes” to the question, “Are you thinking of hurting yourself?”
Yet suicide prevention programs like QPR are not mandatory at Moezzi’s university – nor at many others. Active shooter drills are mandatory – a fact she finds ironic, since mass shootings account for 1% of gun casualties and suicides for 60%. In Inside Higher Ed, Moezzi concludes: “Failing to mandate suicide prevention training at colleges and universities in spite of these statistics isn’t just misguided or negligent. It’s ignorant and reckless.”
Nine hundred miles from Moezzi’s school, a team of psychologists at Loyola University in Chicago are piloting another approach. The goal: to reach students before they get to a crisis point by enlisting academic advisors to connect with students about their state of mind.
Colleen Conley and her team at Loyola designed a short “motivational interviewing” curriculum that advisors can use during a routine meeting. Advisors help students reflect on their goals and ask if they might benefit from any changes: Are they getting enough sleep or drinking too much? Is it affecting their mental health? How might the student make a change?
Early results show a promising trend, Conley said. Students interviewed in this way are more likely to seek counseling services, and motivational interviewing is linked to behavior change. Plus, she said, it gets students to discuss mental health at an appointment they’re already attending.
“We found that if we could work even five to ten minutes of talking about well-being into a meeting that was already happening, that was so much easier than relying on students to schedule a separate appointment,” Conley said.
In Winston-Salem North Carolina, Wake Forest University uses an app called Timely Care to provide 24/7 access to a mental health professional for students in crisis. The app also makes it easy for students to schedule non-urgent counseling appointments and provides coaching on diet, nutrition, exercise and sleep.
As colleges work to support student mental health, there’s still a lack of evidence on what works best, said Boston University’s Lipson, partly because each campus is different.
“While a public health approach is the starting point for addressing mental health at colleges and universities, there isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach,” she said. “What works for one campus may not work for another.”
One approach that seems both popular and effective, however, is peer support.
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Read the full piece here:
https://mindsitenews.org/2022/04/27/young-advocates-take-the-lead-to-curb-campus-suicide
This article also appeared in The 74:
https://www.the74million.org/article/young-advocates-take-the-lead-to-curb-campus-suicide
Quoted in "Words describing mental health can stigmatize. That’s painful and dehumanizing," by Steven Petrow →
Melody Moezzi, author of the memoir, “Haldol and Hyacinths: A Bipolar Life,” recalls how the shaming language used to describe her diagnosis “stopped me from getting better help sooner. It led me to hide hallucinations and other symptoms out of fear for how these symptoms might be viewed by society and by the medical establishment.”
Read Steven’s full article here:
WRAL: Books about Mental Health Experiences (by Amber Brown) →
One of the most important factors of developing empathy is to better understand experiences which are not our own. Through these narratives, one can see how someone with a mental illness handles everyday life.
Link: https://www.wral.com/books-about-mental-health-experiences/19782955
91.3 WYSO's Book Nook: The Rumi Prescription Interview →
Vick Mickunas' 2021 interview with Melody Moezzi
Melody Moezzi made her first appearance on the program to discuss her latest memoir. It just came out in paperback. In this captivating book the author shares her powerful story about battling writer's block and depression and how the poetry of the Persian mystic Rumi eventually brought her solace and inspiration.
Her father had been sharing Rumi's poetry with his daughter for as long as she could remember. But it never really sank in until she needed it the most.
Melody teaches creative writing at the University of North Carolina at Wilmington and she has a long association with our region. She grew up in Dayton. Her dad was an obstetrician for many years here in the Miami Valley.
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The Book Nook on WYSO is presented by the Greene County Public Library with additional support from Washington-Centerville Public Library, Clark County Public Library, Dayton Metro Library, and Wright Memorial Public Library.
Vick Mickunas introduced the Book Nook author interview program for WYSO in 1994. Over the years he has produced more than 1500 interviews with writers, musicians, poets, politicians, and celebrities. Listen to the Book Nook with Vick Mickunas for intimate conversations about books with the writers who create them. Vick Mickunas reviews books for the Dayton Daily News and the Springfield News Sun.
Spirituality & Practice: The Best Spiritual Books of 2020 →
Every year from all the books we review on this website, we choose the Best Spiritual Books. In addition to 50 adult books, we also include 10 Best Spiritual Children's Books.
These are titles that have most impressed and inspired us. Since we only review books that we want to recommend to you for your spiritual journey, this selection actually represents the best of the best. Through diverse approaches, drawing upon the wisdom and practices of the world's religions, these titles explore the quest for meaning and purpose, wholeness and healing, commitment and community, contemplation and activism.
We congratulate the authors and publishers of these exceptional contributions to today's spiritual renaissance. Click on the title link to read the full review.
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The Rumi Prescription by Melody Moezzi
An invitation to join the author on a mystical and healing journey of love with Rumi.
Array of Faith Podcast
Melody Moezzi is an Iranian-American Muslim author, attorney, activist, and visiting professor of creative nonfiction at the University of North Carolina Wilmington. Kirkus calls her latest book, The Rumi Prescription: How an Ancient Mystic Poet Changed My Modern Manic Life, “a heartening narrative of family, transformation, and courage” that “could shatter a variety of prejudices and stereotypes.”
https://arrayoffaith.podbean.com/e/melody-moezzi-muslim-practitioner
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/melody-moezzi-muslim-practitioner/id1533533369?i=1000510139162
Quoted in "Biden’s repeal of ‘Muslim ban’ an olive branch to Iran," by Koroush Ziabari →
“I think the Biden administration has already shown a strong commitment to a more rational and inclusive immigration policy, and I pray that the administration is able to get that policy through the legislature without having to make too many concessions,” said Melody Moezzi, an award-winning Iranian-American author and visiting associate professor at University of North Carolina Wilmington.
“During Trump’s presidency, I heard from countless friends and cousins in Iran who said that America was no longer their first choice of country to which they hoped to immigrate. Canada and New Zealand and several European countries routinely ranked higher for them than the United States. To me, this was a clear indication that America was in decline,” she told Asia Times.
Read Koroush’s full article here:
https://asiatimes.com/2021/01/bidens-repeal-of-muslim-ban-an-olive-branch-to-iran
WHQR's CoastLine: Holiday Stories from Authors Zelda Lockhart & Melody Moezzi →
It’s a special holiday edition of CoastLine with two original stories of the season.
https://www.whqr.org/post/coastline-holiday-stories-authors-zelda-lockhart-and-melody-moezzi
Zelda Lockhart is a Visiting Associate Professor in the Creative Writing Department at the University of North Carolina Wilmington. She is the 2010 winner of the Piedmont Laureate for Literature. And she is the author of three novels, including Fifth Born and Fifth Born 2: The Hundredth Turtle.
Fifth Born tells the story of Odessa Blackburn in St. Louis Missouri and rural Mississippi. She loses her grandmother when she is three. She suffers through sexual abuse perpetrated by her father, whom she saw kill his own brother. The next book, Fifth Born 2: The Hundredth Turtle, holds the story she reads on this edition.
Melody Moezzi is a Visiting Associate Professor of Creative Writing at the University of North Carolina Wilmington. She is an attorney, and she’s the author of The Rumi Prescription – which we discussed on this show in April 2020 – in the dawn of the pandemic.
The Rumi Prescription chronicles Moezzi's journey through mental health challenges with the guidance of the ancient Sufi mystic and poet, Rumi. She is Muslim, Iranian American. She is not Christian. But she loves Christmas and reads an excerpt about this from her book.
NAMI Guilford Book Den: Review by Mitch McGee
The Rumi Prescription by Melody Moezzi is the book I am recommending to most everyone I know right now! I purchased the book at a "reading" that Ms. Moezzi had at Scuppernong's in Greensboro as the world was about to "shut down" due to the pandemic. I quickly devoured the book, being a fan of Ms. Moezzi's two previous books. I recently read it again, and this many months into the pandemic, it still spoke to me. How much you ask? I have purchased several copies for gifts, recommend the book to anyone who will listen, and have purchased more books about Rumi - and have more on my "wishlist" on Amazon. What does that say? I have decided I will read it again as the world starts to "return to a more "normal" existence", to see what stands out to me again.
Read the entire review here:
https://namiguilford.org/mental-health-resources/books-reviews
Star News: Visiting UNCW writer finds reason behind the rhymes of Rumi (review by Ben Steelman) →
A poet is not without honor, except in her own country.
Louise Gluck may have won the 2020 Nobel Prize for Literature, but the best-selling poet in America isn't her, but rather an Iranian guy who's been dead for nearly 750 years.
The verses of Jalal ad-Din Muhammad Rumi, better known as just Rumi, sell millions of copies each year in English translation. Untold numbers of couples work his poems into their wedding ceremonies—although, when he speaks of his Beloved, he probably means the Divine rather than a human sweetheart.
Madonna is a big fan. Chris Martin of Coldplay turned to Rumi to recover from his divorce from Gwyneth Paltrow, and snatches of his work found their way into the band's lyrics. Beyonce and Jay-Z even named their daughter “Rumi.”
The man is a star.
But is it all a fad? Will Rumi eventually go the way of the Desiderata (“Go placidly among the noise and waste”), Rod McKuen and “Jonathan Livingston Seagull”?
Melody Moezzi argues not.
Moezzi, currently a visiting associate professor of creative writing at the University of North Carolina Wilmington, is the daughter of Iranians who fled the current regime in Iran. Born in the USA, and currently living in the Raleigh-Durham area, she nevertheless speaks Farsi, the modern equivalent of the main language in which Rumi wrote. (She admits, however, that she’s not perfect at it.)
In her latest, engaging book, “The Rumi Prescription,” Moezzi—who's also a licensed, non-practicing lawyer—tells how a study of Rumi’s verse helped her through several dark nights of the soul. Further, she argues that Rumi can help modern Americans through much of their current malaise.
Some years back, Moezzi had hit a dry patch, a monumental case of writer’s block. After a terrific struggle with bipolar disorder, her mood swings were controlled by medications. What she was left with, though, was an emptiness, a sense of the blahs.
To fix it, Moezzi took a month’s vacation and headed to San Diego to visit her parents. Specifically, she sought out her father, a confirmed Rumi fan, for daily tutoring sessions, reading Rumi in the original medieval Persian.
Her dad, an obstetrician, apparently drops Rumi couplets at the drop of a fez, the way the late Sen. Sam J. Ervin used to pepper his speeches with snatches of Shakespeare or the King Jame Bible. When Moezzi was little, the habit often irritated her, like having one's parents constantly remind you to eat your vegetables and wash behind your ears. Now, however, she sensed there was something she missed.
Catching back up wasn’t easy. Rumi lived a full century before Geoffrey Chaucer, and the Perisan of his poems is sometimes as far from Farsi, the contemporary language of Iran, as “The Canterbury Tales” are from modern English.
Also, the meanings are slippery. Rumi was a Muslim, a scholar of the Quran, but his Islam was far from that of the Ayatollah Khomeini or the Taliban. Technically, he was a Sufi, one of a mystic school who sought union with the Divine through such practices as ecstatic dancing. (Rumi was one of the original “whirling dervishes.”) As with all mystics, his meaning is not always clear.
Still, Moezzi found some basic lessons. The essence of the Divine—God, Allah, or whatever you call it—is love, and joining in love. The Divine is in all of us, and to get to it, we must overcome our egos, our self-absorption, and reach out. We have to tune out the distractions of everyday life and learn what’s really important.
If this sounds familiar, it is. As Moezzi notes, Rumi’s mysticism finds parallels all over, in Buddhism, in Christianity from the First Epistle of John to St. Francis of Assisi, and in Western thinkers all the way to John Lennon. The lessons aren’t new. We just have to master them.
Among those lessons is embracing your loved ones. One of the most attractive parts of “The Rumi Prescription” is how Moezzi grows closer to her father, a cheerful character with an immigrant’s cockeyed optimism.
Rumi can’t solve everything. Moezzi makes clear that she still takes her pills. Still, she makes a case that he has a lot to offer us, in a memoir punctuated with humor, pathos and often pithy writing. Readers might be reminded of Jeff Bridges’ “The Dude and the Zen Master,” or “Families and How to Survive Them” by Robin Skynner and John Cleese.
Suicide 'n' Stuff: Episode 29
Suicide 'n' Stuff is a video podcast situation where we talk about suicide… and also stuff. All the stuff and all the things! S 'n' S airs every other Tuesday on Facebook Live at 9pm et/7pm mt.
CXMH Podcast (#106): Rumi, Personal Healing, & Fighting Injustice with Love
This week we’re joined by Melody Moezzi, author of the new book The Rumi Prescription: How an Ancient Mystic Poet Changed My Modern Manic Life. She talks with us about Rumi, her experiences with a bipolar diagnosis, the challenges between faith & mental healthcare, and how to fight injustice with love instead of anger. In the intro, Robert & Holly talk about end-of-the-school year traditions.
CIIS Public Programs Podcast: Exploring Rumi to Make Sense of Ourselves
“Quit being a drop. Make yourself an ocean.” Rumi’s inspiring and deceptively simple poems have been called ecstatic, mystical, and devotional. For writer and activist Melody Moezzi, they became her lifeline.
Melody’s latest book, The Rumi Prescription, follows her path of discovery as she translates Rumi’s works for herself, gaining wisdom and insight in the face of a creative and spiritual roadblock. In this episode, Professor and Co-Chair of CIIS’ Expressive Arts Therapy Program Shoshana Simons talks with Melody about her life and how the wisdom she found exploring Rumi can help us make sense of our modern lives.
This episode contains explicit language. It was recorded during a live online event on May 20, 2020.
Moezzi ’01 Shares Reflections, Advice on Applying Rumi’s Wisdom to Modern Life (interview by Katie Aberbach)
The timing of the release of The Rumi Prescription: How an Ancient Mystic Poet Changed My Modern Manic Life (Penguin Random House, 2020) was far from ideal. Officially out March 3, the new book by Melody Moezzi ’01 was barely in readers’ hands before social distancing restrictions were imposed due to the coronavirus pandemic. Moezzi was able to participate in a handful of events near her home in Wilmington, N.C. . . . and then the remainder were canceled or rescheduled in virtual form.
However, The Rumi Prescription is the sort of book that people with extra free time on their hands—and the inclination to obtain meaning from difficult experiences—might value. Moezzi’s third book, The Rumi Prescription details how she came to interpret and apply the lessons of the 13th-century mystic poet Rumi to her modern-day world, a process that was ultimately life-changing.
An Iranian-American Muslim author, attorney, activist, and visiting professor of creative nonfiction at the University of North Carolina Wilmington, Moezzi has also written about mental health in her 2014 memoir Haldol and Hyacinths: A Bipolar Life. On May 18, she will participate in a live Zoom conversation about The Rumi Prescription with fellow mental wellness activist and illustrator Ellen Forney ’89, as part of a series offered by Literati bookstore in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Click here to join the event on May 18.
Moezzi recently answered questions about The Rumi Prescription, how Rumi’s words can apply to today’s world, and her advice for taking care of your mental health during a pandemic.
First of all, how’s The Rumi Prescription doing? What a time to launch a new book.
Melody Moezzi: It’s not the best time to be releasing a book, but it turns out that the topic of this book is actually something that is helpful for people right now, so I’m glad for that. At least people seem to be finding comfort in it.
I even wrote a bit about the power of viruses in the book. I’ve always sort of admired them, how these tiny things can invade and replicate—I have a master’s in public health and both my parents are doctors. I’ve always thought it was a miracle that this [sort of pandemic] hadn’t happened in my lifetime at least.
In the book itself, [the discussion of viruses is] more about how the way that you learn to find a vaccine is to study the virus itself. Rumi suggests that the cure for whatever pain or ailment you have begins with respecting and studying that pain. He says (in my translation): For a viable cure, pain is the key. Your injury invites the remedy.
What can Rumi offer us today, particularly in the midst of a pandemic?
MM: He has a lot of poems that I’ve found a great deal of comfort in during this time. Here’s one: Why seek pilgrimage at some distant shore, when the Beloved is right next door? Initially when my book tour was canceled and all this happened, it was a nice reminder that you don’t need to go far to find hope, to find healing. It’s right where you are.
What other words of Rumi’s do you think can apply lately?
MM: These are a few others I’m finding comfort in right now: [All translations are Moezzi’s.]
You went out in search of gold far and wide, but all along you were gold on the inside.
Every storm the Beloved unfurls permits the sea to scatter pearls.
Become the sky and the clouds that create the rain, not the gutter that carries it to the drain.
Welcome every guest, no matter how grotesque.
Be as hospitable to calamity as to ecstasy, to anxiety as to tranquility.
Today’s misery sweeps your home clean, making way for tomorrow’s felicity.
You’ve written about mental health and particularly your own mental health before. What risks does this pandemic—in which many of us are being told to stay at home and away from others—pose to mental health?
MM: It poses a lot of risks. For instance, I deal with depression. My primary symptom is isolation. I isolate myself from the world, and one of the best things I can do to cure myself is to get out in the world, physically. It’s funny to have these symptoms imposed, and then hope that they don’t lead to the condition.
I’ve come to the conclusion that every day is different. I’m accepting that some days will be bad. But I have to remind myself that the next day can always be better. One of the biggest delusions of depression is that you’ve always felt this way and that you will always feel this way. It robs you of the insight that things can and will be different, better.
I know of so many people [with mental health conditions] who are far more successful than I am, in every field, who have written me personally because they’ve read my books and have said, “Thank you for being public about this, in a way that I never could.” It’s important to remember that people living with mental health conditions are highly capable, and in some cases extra capable. Being able to see that kind of triumph in the face of adversity, both in my own life and in the lives of the many wildly successful people who write to me to share their stories, has been a huge source of pride and inspiration for me. I have no doubt that it has helped keep me well.
How can anybody protect their mental health right now?
MM: One of the top things I would suggest is to maintain a routine—not necessarily the same routine that you had before. But create a routine for yourself, keep it up, and don’t think too far ahead into future, because the answer to pretty much everything right now is “we just don’t know.”
What Rumi specifically says about this is: Forget your plans and embrace uncertainty. Only then will you find stability. If you think about it, so much of life is uncertain and if you find a way to embrace that instead of constantly fighting it, you’ve found a viable path to peace.
You grew up hearing about Rumi from your dad, who was a huge fan of Rumi’s poetry, but you didn’t get to know Rumi well until much later in life.
MM: I grew up with Rumi in the house; he was everywhere. Every lesson my father has ever taught me was accompanied by a couplet or a quatrain. But I never embraced Rumi on my own until after I had a manic episode that overlapped with a mystical experience [and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder]. That mystical experience included this feeling of being deeply connected to every other living thing on the planet, down to the cellular level, to the point where I recognized that I couldn’t harm any other living thing without also harming myself, because we were connected.
After that experience, I’ve never been able to question, even intellectually, the existence of the Beloved in the same way. Certain things strike me on a daily basis, like cutting open a head of cabbage with all those intricate curves and twists inside that seem to reflect the grooves that form our own brains. I know these are ordinary patterns, but they also seem extraordinary to me. This sense of awe in the ordinary is what that mystical experience woke up within me. It’s not always at the forefront of my awareness, but I know it’s always true. I see these sorts of reflections and connections everywhere now.
Do you think Rumi made those same sorts of connections?
MM: Yes. His poetry isn’t meant to be read while sitting. Rather, it’s meant to be sung while spinning. He was the first of the so-called whirling dervishes, and honestly, if he were alive today, I suspect that he, too, may have been hospitalized. Our planet has a long history of confusing wisdom for madness and vice versa.
It’s interesting. When I start to go manic, I often start to rhyme. Rumi wrote in rhyming couplets; my translations [of his words in The Rumi Prescription] are all rhyming as well, because I found it important to maintain the musicality of his verse. I actually started rhyming in my own prose without trying for a few pages in the middle of the book, and writing those few pages was so strange for me. I actually feared that I might be going manic because of how naturally rhyming comes to me when I’ve been manic or hypomanic in the past. But thankfully, I was fine. I stopped writing for the day after that, centered myself, and was able to go to sleep. I think what protected me from going manic there (apart from sleeping and the fact that I take meds for my condition) was being so ensconced in Rumi’s poetry at the time, poetry that is not only deeply spiritual, but that is also part of my own culture and ancestry.
But again, just for the record, I do take meds as well. I’m not in any way suggesting that anyone with bipolar or any other serious mental health condition can be cured by poetry alone. I’m just saying that it can be intensely healing, both for people like me with serious mental health conditions and for others with no psychiatric diagnosis to speak of but who live in a world that seems to be getting crazier by the minute.
This book isn’t for people with mental health conditions, it’s for people with emotions, which is just another way of saying everyone.
As a person of Persian descent, do you feel like Rumi’s words resonate on a deeper level with you?
MM: I think so. There’s something powerful about connecting with the culture, history, and rituals of your ancestors, and for me, as an Iranian-American Muslimah, this was certainly the case. I want my readers to find comfort in Rumi’s poetry, and I’m confident that they will, but I also want them to find comfort and healing in their own unique cultures and histories.
Of course, being who I am, I also want people who aren’t Persian and don’t speak Farsi to fully understand that this poet was a Muslim, an Iranian, and a refugee. Why? Because as an American, I’m tired of my country banning people who meet any or all of these criteria. So in addition to being a book that I hope will help my readers come closer to the Beloved within themselves and within all of us, this is also a book that I hope will remind my fellow Americans that this poet whose verses they seem to love so much is also a Middle Eastern, Muslim refugee. . . . My hope is that this book will help . . . encourage readers to start doing the work of making this world and this country a place that welcomes instead of bans Muslim and Middle Easterners like Rumi and me.
WHQR's CoastLine: Melody Moezzi On The Rumi Prescription (interview by Rachel Lewis Hilburn) →
Melody Moezzi describes herself first as Iranian-American. She is then Muslim. After that, she’s an author, attorney, and activist. She is also a Visiting Professor of Creative Writing at the University of North Carolina Wilmington.
On this edition of CoastLine, we explore her latest work through the lens of her ethnicity, culture and career success – which is considerable. We also learn about her battle with mental illness – which, as we’ll discover – transformed into one of the gifts that led her to explore the mystic poetry of Rumi, a thirteenth-century scholar and theologian from the Middle East.
Melody Moezzi has written for NPR, CNN, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and The Christian Science Monitor. But that is hardly an exhaustive list. She is the author of three books: War on Error: Real Stories of American Muslims and Haldol and Hyacinths: A Bipolar Life.
It’s her most recent book, out last month that we’re exploring today: The Rumi Prescription: How An Ancient Mystic Poet Changed My Modern Manic Life.
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The Adroit Journal: An Ode to Self-Care—And Rumi: A Conversation with Melody Moezzi (interview by Merideth Doench)
When I picked up Melody Moezzi’s latest memoir, The Rumi Prescription: How an Ancient Mystic Poet Changed My Modern Manic Life, I had the distinct feeling this book landed in my hands for a reason. I’d been searching for a work that could nourish my creative soul for some time, a work that could speak to the struggles of our modern life and creating art. The Rumi Prescription is the book I’ve been waiting for.
Moezzi’s other books, War on Error: Real Stories of American Muslims and Haldol and Hyacinths: A Bipolar Life, feature a strong voice matched only by its sheer wit and brilliance. Moezzi’s latest memoir is no different. It centers the teachings of the Sufi poet, Rumi, and how his ancient words speak to our ever-present life maladies, such as depression, anxiety, and distraction, to name a few. The memoir was sparked, however, by Moezzi’s own creative block and inability to write. In a last ditch effort, she turned for answers in the poetry of Rumi, which her father had recited her entire life. Through Rumi’s teachings and her father’s guidance, Moezzi details for us how she went from the depths of creative despair to breaking through the barriers that once held her back.
Moezzi and I grew up in Centerville, a sleepy suburb of Dayton, Ohio, and the home of Esther Price Candy Company. Moezzi’s sister, Romana and I were friends, as only backyards separated our homes. Our fathers worked at the same hospital. Despite our seeming similarities growing up, though, Rumi (or any other poet) was not a regular discussion in my household. As I read this book, I found myself hungry to know more about Rumi and sad that I hadn’t experienced a father who shared lines of poetry as prescriptions for my everyday ailments. Perhaps that’s why it feels like kismet helped to guide this book into my hands.
I was lucky enough to catch up with Melody Moezzi to ask her a few questions about her writing process and The Rumi Prescription.
Podcast: Spilling Chai - Anushay talks Persian poetry with Melody Moezzi
Hello Everyone! Welcome to Episode 4 of “Spilling Chai” coming to you live from Washington, DC on yet another sunny and stunning Spring day. I cannot believe we are already on the FOURTH episode of this podcast. Thank you guys for making me feel so welcome in this new space and for spilling chai with us!
So when I first decided that I was going to do a podcast, one thing I was sure of before I even knew how to work a podcast app was that I wanted this show to feature the voices of really strong women of color— our perspectives, our expertise, our stories, our lives, and our work.
Today’s guest not only epitomizes what I mean when I say a “strong woman of color,” but she is also someone who when I came across her work early in my career made a huge impact on me: I am talking about Melody Moezzi.
Thank you!
WHYY's The Pulse: Mental Health in Times of Crisis (clip) →
It was great to be included in a segment of WHYY’s The Pulse to discuss how I’m coping and staying well during the pandemic.
1 minute clip: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ep3gf2ga1hhxyr4/moezzi_thepulse20200403.mp3
Full episode: https://whyy.org/episodes/mental-health-in-times-of-crisis
Mental Health in Times of Crisis
Air Date: April 3, 2020
The COVID-19 outbreak is creating increased demand for mental health services — lots of people are feeling anxious, or are getting depressed. At the same time, traditional mental health services have been disrupted. In-person sessions are not possible at the moment, nor are group sessions. How are providers and their clients adjusting? We take a look at mental health services and what people are doing to stay well during these difficult times. We also hear stories of families affected by serious mental health issues, and why they say the system fails too many people.
Also heard on this week’s episode:
Dawn Brown, director of community engagement for the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), discusses her organization’s guide for dealing with the fallout of COVID-19.
We talk with Jonathan Singer, a professor of social work at Loyola University, about how the COVID-19 pandemic is pushing our mental health system to offer services online.
Psychiatrist and documentarian Kenneth Paul Rosenberg talks about his recent film and book, “Bedlam: An Intimate Journey into America’s Mental Health Crisis,” which traces the failure of the U.S. mental health system.
When you’re faced with a mental health crisis, who do you call? Internist and regular Pulse contributor Neda Frayha explains why primary care physicians might be the first and only access point for some people with mental health issues.
Karriem Salaam, an adolescent and child psychiatrist at Friends Hospital in Philadelphia, discusses how people with previous trauma or mental health issues are coping during this global crisis.
Author Melody Moezzi shares how poetry is helping her through difficult times. Her new book is “The Rumi Prescription.”
Psychologist Scott Haas discusses how reframing our general take on this crisis could help us deal with this situation.